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As For My Boys — One Moore Thing

I don’t believe in that tired adage,
boys will be boys.

A blanket excuse.
A shield for letting them get away with the things that girls aren’t supposed to do.
I wish we would say,
boys will be men.
And raise them accordingly.
I wish we could take all the boys by the hand
and tell them that we love them.
If there is a shortage of anything in this world
it is men who were not told as boys how much they were loved.

As for my boys
I will talk to them.
I will show them the words.
I will give them the depths of my love and pride.
I will give them the safe space to let their truths be heard.
I will give them the room to roam and grow.
I will give them kindness and respect.
I will expect from them kindness and respect.
I will remind them that the power of a man
is not based just upon how he speaks but how he listens.
I will play with them.
I will dance with them.
I will hold them.
I will believe them.
I will praise them.
I will embrace who they are.
I will not scold them for their tears.
I will whisper and shout and be their advocate.
I will model how a woman should be treated.
I will give them boundaries.
I will teach them the power of the word no.
I will teach them that they will ask for permission.
I will teach them that the way they respond to the nos and the stops are everything.
I will teach them to open doors and mop floors and how to cook.
I will teach them that sensitivity outweighs strength.
I will hear them.
I will hold them.
I will have high expectations.
I will watch them, eyes wide open.
They will be men soon enough that can make the world better. Or worse.
As for my boys, there is only one option.
I expect nothing less.

Katie has a new book out that is a collection of quotes and mic drops to embrace your inner warrior. “Girl Power” is available now on Amazon and is the perfect gift for all the warriors in your world. You can find out more details and book signing info on her instagram @katieyackleymoore. Endless thanks for reading. Xo

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MooreFam SKatie Yackley Moore is a freelance writer, real estate agent, yoga instructor and a momma of four navigating life and a separation and finding herself in the process. She adores coffee shops, laughing until it hurts and impromptu dance parties. Her work has appeared on Scary Mommy, Mamalode and HuffPost Parents. She has published a journal entitled “Dream a Bigger Dream” and the children’s books “You Are a Warrior” and “We are Family” and just finished her first novel. Catch up with her between tea breaks at The Naked Momma and on Facebook.

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