Chanel Pariseau, a professional photographer and social media marketer, is a wife and mom to Xavier (12), Henry (11) and Chloe (10), who all love sports — especially basketball, baseball and dance. In fact, her husband, James, has coached their teams for several years now, and both parents try to stay active with their volunteer groups and church.
This interview has been edited for length and clarity.
What’s it like balancing business alongside raising a family?
It used to be extremely challenging to balance babies and toddlers while trying to grow a business. I never felt like my business was a priority and would be shy to tell people what I did for work. These days, it’s become a normal part of our lives. I allow myself to not overschedule myself and set time apart, especially during sports and holiday seasons.
I do not work a typical 9 to 5 with either side of work — only when I’m long-term teaching. Overall, I find it easier. I am able to be around for their school events, keep my house balanced and do things like editing or scheduling while everyone’s at school.
How did you get involved with the PTA and what does it entail?
Our middle school did not have anyone lined up to run for president, so I offered to run. It entails hosting monthly meetings, looking out for grants or other means of support for our school and students, working with my board to host fundraisers and community-focused spirit dining nights.
I want to be involved. I want to know what [my children’s] experiences are like, I want their teachers to feel supported, I want the custodial staff to feel heard and I want the parents to be informed. I feel as if my network and my personality match up to what’s needed.
What advice would you offer to parents who want to do more but worry they won’t have the time and energy?
I would say, “Start small.” You don’t have to do it all to change the world. One small effort is enough!
How do you keep yourself grounded and balanced?
I am a strong believer in the power of prayer and a long morning walk. Some mornings, it may only be 10 minutes, and some two hours long. My busy schedule can have me dismissing my feelings or emotions often, so that prayer walk allows me to be up before the sun and the community and release what needs to come out. It could be laughter, or tears or just lots of words.
What do you hope your kids learn from watching their parents be hands-on community members?
I hope that my kids can learn to look outside of themselves and realize there’s always someone or something that could use support. I hope they learn that regardless of what their abilities are, they are capable of making positive change for others.
Family’s favorites
Meal: Taco Tuesday — especially with tamalito from Chevy’s
Game: Trivia
Vacation spot: Florida, any part!
Movie or TV show to watch: “Stranger Things”
